Be With Me (2005) 7/10
The default rule of thumb when reviewing Singaporean films is not to have high expectations. Most come across as amateurish productions with tacky effects, pedestrian directing and universally atrocious acting. Which is why Eric Khoo’s Be With Me comes as such a surprise. This is one of the rare occasions where a Singaporean film gets praise and is truly deserving of accolades. Lets hope i won’t have to wait forever to watch the next good Singaporean film.
The first thing that strikes you is the cinematography. The Singapore captured on film is beguilingly beautiful. It is rare that even a mundane hawker centre shot is captured with such vivid colors. Khoo presents a Singapore that is achingly beautiful, yet its emptiness echoes the loneliness of men, building on the themes of urban isolation prevalent in the film.
The film is centred upon 3 fictitious tales linked through the real life story of Theresa Chan, who is both blind and mute. The 3 tales explore themes of loneliness and loss, of young love denied and of distant crushes dashed. The Achilles Heel of Singapore film-making is the acting department. The average actor ranges from plain bad to just mediocre. Compared to comparable indie films from other countries, like Japan’s Nobody Knows or Palestine’s Paradise Now, the acting standards of Singaporean films have stagnated at Channel 8 soap-opera levels. This may pass muster on the small screen, but on the big screen more is expected. And here, Khoo sidesteps this weakness by using sparse dialogue. By reducing dialogue to a minimal, Khoo not only downplays the weaknesses in acting but also creates a melancholic mood that suits the themes of the film. At times, Khoo’s film feels like a Wong Kar Wai imitation, but luckily Khoo also adds a few distinctive touches of his own, such as an emphasis on the food motiff.
The strength of the film lies in the mood. Khoo creates a dreamy and almost poetic vision, using tools like handphone screens and a nifty view of a typewriter to express what the characters don’t or can’t express. The underlying critique is then how people use technology not as a means of communication but as a barrier that places an emotional gulf between people. What i find jarring however, is the blend of fact with fiction, an experiment that detracts from the film rather than enhancing it. With the three fictitious plotlines, the movie evokes the slow Wong Kar Wai mood that makes this a satisfying film experience, but by inserting an almost documentary excerpt of Theresa, it also undercuts the effectiveness of the movie. The problem is that Khoo is unsure what kind of a movie he want: an arthouse mood piece or a moving documentary. In trying to infuse fact with fiction, he achieves neither. Teresa’s tale acts as the moral touchstone of the movie, her tale of perseverance juxtaposed with the sadness and isolation felt in the other plotlines. However, her plotline documents her everyday life narrated via subtitles which attempts to summarize her life story. It is a sort of tale better suited to be told via a book than through a film, and here the film suffers from trying to port an autobiography into a movie.
Another jarring weakness is how Khoo tries to link the 3 disparate tales though plot devices that can best be described as forced. For example, the Ezann Lee storyline intersects with the infatuated security guard in a sequence that has got to be one of the lamest plot device in a long time. Contrast for example, how parallel storylines are handled in films such as Amores Perros, 21 Grams or Crash and it become painfully evident that local film-making still lags behind the international level on several levels, and the ability to convincingly handle and link multiple plotlines is one of them.
This review probably comes across as overly harsh, but it actually contains one of the highest praise. It is the only local film to get a 7/10. Unlike other local films that is Singapore specific and can only be understood by Singaporeans (Money No Enough, 881), or blatant ripoffs of better foreign films (HomeRun), Be With Me explores universal themes of love, loss and isolation. It is a film that can be appreciated in any part of the world and is comparable with the best international films. Definitely the best Singaporean film i’ve seen.
“Paths cross, lives intertwine (sometimes only briefly), and nothing resolves easily. That’s life, that’s love. Be With Me puts it all out there with tremendous yet understated power.”- Don Willmott
“Singaporean writer-director Eric Khoo’s third feature is a beautiful, contemplative study of love — unrequited, unfulfilled and reborn.”- Ken Fox